Spanking View

It has been about a year since Clare Fonda transitioned into other projects outside of CF Worldwide. In that year, she has continued to have some valuable input into the sites as well as being a great friend to me. So it is definitely time for us to catch up with Clare and see what she has been up to.  Exciting stuff (including a brand new web site). Here are 5 questions for Clare.

1.  You have been out of the spanking video scene for a year now. Do you miss it?

CLARE SAYS: With all due respect, no. I keep in touch with a lot of people from the scene and a lot of customers are more like friends now. I felt like I, personally, had gone as far as I could go in spanking. The Cameraman has expanded our business, and I’m really impressed with the new site, www.spankingveronicaworks.com and the variety of models he is working with. He is certainly stimulating the economy, at home and abroad. Plus now he and I get to go to boot camp together and work out, instead of shooting all the time. We even get to go drinking. It’s great!

2. What are you working on now?

 CLARE SAYS:  I have had a variety of clips up on www.cutecougar.com for a few years now and I just opened www.jamiefosterstrips.com. It’s a FORCED STRIPPING site. As you know, this category is pretty big on Clips4sale and it’s unrepresented on the web. Of course I have www.naughtydiapergirls.com  – working with models who are diaper friendly, curious or at least willing to wear!

3. Who are some of our models that you keep in touch with?

CLARE SAYS:  Hmmmm- let’s see, the top five. Well, as you know I see Eve Howard as much as I can. I am not going to Vegas to gamble- Eve, Tony and Butch are my sure things. It has been heaven in the Valley since Paris Kennedy moved back form the West Side. We have decided that since we have known each other for 12 years we are married by common law. Who gives a shit if I am straight! I saw Sarah Gregory this week and she is doing so well in this business and has grown into such a fine young lady. I’m very proud of Sarah, lunch with her tomorrow — and the cameraman, and I think Christy Cutie is coming a long. Will be nice to get to know her. Lorelei Mission and I shoot together and then go out to dinner.We also do some animal rescue and her content rocks.  Finally, Veronica Ricci and I keep in touch quite a bit. She is a generous soul, and doing well with her own creative vision I notice from the CFWW sites. I see a lot more of the models around but they are probably not reading this, so fuck it.

 

4.  Have you been getting spanked in real life?

CLARE SAYS:  Just at www.sanctuarylax.com where I work about once every six weeks. Spanked, flogged, tickled, tied up, mouthsoaped, you name it. I work as a sub there. Paris will be there with me at the end of this month. That girl is going to be busy.  Genesis is there- I know the Camerman shot with her last year and I remember how I introduced her to Shadowlane.  Now she is a major part of the LA Fetish scene. We both saw that coming. No, I have not been dating anyone regularly. I am either too busy and get stressed out by it or too subby for the guy and he just walks all over me. It’s okay. I sleep with 4 dogs in my bed. Maybe that is working against the whole “Soulmate” deal as well.

5. What does the future hold for Clare Fonda/Jamie Foster?

CLARE SAYS: Well, I believe that the Cameraman got Paris and I involved in a drunken promise to get spanked on camera when we work at the Sanctuary on June 30th.  I’m just taking it one day at a time ’til then.  See you at Boot Camp.

Thanks so much to my good friend Clare/Jamie for checking in with us!  As she says, I will see her in bootcamp. Please feel free to leave comments here or check in with her Clare Fonda Blog that she still updates.

Sometimes I shoot models and don’t feel much one way or another.  They are doing their job and I am doing mine.

Occasionally (but very rarely), I shoot a model and find her to be annoying and hope that I don’t have to work with her again.

And once in a while, I shoot with someone who has a stand-out personality and I end up considering her a friend. Ashley Rose, the latest Spanked Sweeties,  is someone I consider a friend now.

Ashley is so sweet and fun to be around.  And she is a great model who cares about her work.  She has a nice, curvy bottom and even though she isn’t all about the pain, she is willing to take a lot of it getting spanked because she wants her work to stand out.

Ashley was spanked often growing up and though I am sure they were painful spankings, you can’t help but smile as Ashely goes through her interview on the site because she smiles and giggles and has almost fond memories as she lays out the discipline she received.  Does this mean that she enjoys spankings?  I don’t think so.

I’m not really sure what it means. If any of you watch her interview and the re-enactments she receives from “father,” “babysitter” – who is played by Casey Cumz, or her “Nanny” (played by Syren De Mer, then please comment on this blog.

I would very much like to get to the bottom of this.  How can someone so sweet talk about getting spanked and have it bring a smile to the viewers face?  Hmmm.

Heather Green is a beautiful new spanking model who I had the opportunity to shoot during the Shadow Lane convention recently.  She is tall, lean, has a curvy bottom and lots of energy.  She can take a very hard spanking, and is pretty good at giving one, as well.  She is just now making her mark on various spanking sites, and currently appears on Spanked Call Girls with her good friend Alex Reynolds.  Heather was gracious enough to give me outstanding answers to my 10 questions (plus a bonus one).  Here is what Heather had to say:

1.  Do you consider yourself a spanko (ie someone into spanking) and if so, when did you get started, how did it happen (first time if you remember) and how much of a spanko would you consider yourself?

HEATHER: I have considered myself to be into spanking since I knew what the word meant. I have been fascinated and slightly obsessed, with the idea since I was a very young child, but I was never spanked as a kid. I do, however, remember it being referenced quite often. There was a gold-backed children’s book about a mother cat and her kittens that had been very mischievous. It illustrated a picture of one of the kittens over the mother cat’s knee, kicking and crying during a spanking while the other kittens waited in line for their turn. I can’t describe why this gave me the chills as a six year old, but I distinctly remember looking over the back over and over in private (in my closet) for fear of someone seeing me reading it and thinking I was doing something wrong. It felt shameful for some reason. There were many, many other examples of this behavior through my childhood, teenage years and my adulthood. So I would definitely consider myself a 100% hard-wired spanko.

I’ve gone through the stages of discovering my obsession with spanking, being afraid of it, being ashamed and disgusted, finding others who were just like me, and finally accepting it as a part of who I am. It was a lengthy, and unfortunately embarrassing process, but I am who I am because of it.

My first spanking was when I was 20 years old by my current boyfriend. We weren’t romantically involved at the time, but we were both each other’s first real life experience with spanking. I met him through an online yahoo spanking group while he was overseas and I was living with my vanilla boyfriend of four years. We had been communicating heavily for two months prior to him coming to live in Vacaville, CA, located about 30 minutes from me. We talked about everything, he knew thoroughly who I was as a spanko before we met in person. I craved discipline and structure from someone independent and different from the social norm. He was exactly that, he was confident in who he was as a spanko and desired the same connection as me. We talked for up to eight hours at a time over instant messages. The first time he spanked me we were in his apartment hanging out like we usually did. I was a nervous wreck and he wanted to get the first time over with. It was purely experimental. We wanted to make sure we had the mechanics down before pursuing any type of discipline/structured dynamic. It took me almost 2 hours of sitting on the couch to finally go through with it. Once I was over his lap I remember thinking “wow, this isn’t a big deal at all”. It felt good to finally be in a position that I had craved since childhood. Things eventually escalated from there and we developed a very strong relationship both as a dynamic and a friendship.

2.  In our scenes, you switched – spanked and got spanked.  Do you have a preference?  How much do you like one vs. the other? (In the above photo Heather is demonstrating a very nice impact shot.  She prefers not to top, but she is still very good at it).

HEATHER: I definitely prefer getting spanked over anything else. I am unable to truly identify with topping, as I don’t feel dominant in any way as a spanko.

 

3.  You worked with your friend Alex Reynolds in our first scene, spanking each other.  What was that like?

HEATHER: I love Alex! We play really well off of eachother. Its usually very effortless. We have been getting spanked together for a while now, so I think we know each other’s vibe. We tend to keep it really goofy. The very first time I spanked her it was with a stock of celery and recorded on an iphone. I was really awkward with it but it was a blast. She’s actually gotten really good a giving a firm spanking, though. She knows how to make it feel ultra stingy with her hand. She definitely learned well from her Dom/boyfriend and one of my best friends Malignus. Honestly, I was really nervous about topping in a video since I have very little experience with it, but getting to do it with Alex made me feel a million times more comfortable.

4.  You worked with Veronica Ricci in the second.  What was that like?

HEATHER: Veronica is such a spunky and outgoing girl. She’s really good at improvising things to say in a matter of seconds, which in turn helped me stay on my toes and think quickly. The scene I did with her was probably the silliest one I’ve ever been involved in. I would absolutely love to work with her again in the future.

 

5.  In the scene with Veronica you had to play a character who was getting taught a lesson about blow jobs using a banana.  (Above photo shows Veronica spanking Heather for an upcoming scene on Spanked Call Girls in which Veronica teaches Heather how to give a BJ on a banana). How awkward was that and care to share anything about this experience (was it the first time giving a BJ to a banana)?

HEATHER: It wasn’t awkward at all because I was just having fun with it. My philosophy with any awkward situation is that if you don’t want to feel awkward, then you have the power to choose to not feel awkward.  So I made the conscious choice to just let it be fun! It certainly turned out to be outrageously silly, and I had to try really hard not to laugh, especially when I got yelled at by Veronica for biting the tip of the banana off and spitting it on the ground.

I can’t say I have ever practiced giving a blowjob to a banana, or any other phallic object for that matter. It was never high on the priority list.

 

6.  Most models say they channel a certain character or movie when the portray a call girl for this site?  How did you create your character?

HEATHER: I wasn’t used to having to be mean and catty to Alex. I had to think of some really mean things to say to her, that I normally wouldn’t even fathom saying in real life. The character type that popped into my head during that scene was the movie Mean Girls. I pictured myself as one of them; arrogant, self- absorbed, immature, and just plain mean! It helped a lot. It’s not normally in my nature to tell someone that I’m prettier or more suited for something than someone else (I had to say things along these lines). But I had to fake it and try my best to act like a rude, selfish, bitchy, call girl.

7.  What would you say the hardest spanking you received from a male, and the hardest from a female – that you feel comfortable talking about?

HEATHER: I made the mistake of getting two speeding tickets, going the same speed, on the same highway, and in the time span of two months. Travis (my top/boyfriend) was really not amused by this. He had already spanked me for the first ticket so when he found out about the second one, he gave me probably the hardest spanking I’ve ever had from a male. It consisted of his hand, a hairbrush, and many many strokes with his belt. I can’t say exactly how long it lasted, but I remember standing in the corner thinking it had been upwards of 30 minutes, and I would give anything for it to end. However, as I was standing in the corner, he asked me a question in which I failed to respond correctly by forgetting to say “sir”. This was an ongoing problem throughout the punishment so I knew it was the last straw. He held me by the waist while I was standing there and gave me some of the most severe hand swats that I have ever felt over an already very sore and red behind. I haven’t gotten a speeding ticket since!!

8.  How often would you say you get spanked each month and what are some typical reasons for you getting spanked.

HEATHER: I get swatted at on a daily basis. My boyfriend and I are very playful in that sense. He swats me for having an “attitude” or saying something silly and dumb. Really anything I do can warrant a swat or two. Once in a while I will say or do something so outrageously silly that he will grab a flip flop, book, paddle, or anything within reach to swat me with. This usually ends with a laugh from him, and a grouchy face or slight tear from me. As far as the more serious stuff goes, I generally behave myself really well! It’s the big adult things that would warrant a serious spanking. Like getting a ticket, or most likely doing something that puts my health at risk. Overall, when it comes to the playful stuff, it’s daily, when it comes to the serious stuff, it’s rare.

9.  You seem very thin, but with a curve to your bottom.  Do you exercise (for the buns) and diet a lot?  What’s your secret?

HEATHER: I try really hard not to get into the dieting thing. It’s not healthy for an already healthy girl to think about it too much. I do, however, exercise almost every day. I’m a bit of a health nut in that sense. I’ve always been very athletic, so I easily feel a lull in my energy if that aspect is ever lacking, even a little bit. I don’t think there is a real secret that will work for everyone the same way. Personally, I just know that if I stay active every day, I’ll remain healthy and happy, and apparently acquire a curvy backside in the meantime 😉

10.  Any interests you care to share outside of spanking?

HEATHER: Lately I have been very fortunate to have the opportunity to travel frequently. I’ve seen a new country and over 30 new states. Many of these adventures I’ve been able to share with Alex, and I think we counted about 20 new states that we saw together. It keeps me feeling lively and I hope to continue exploring new places. I also am an avid snowboarder and can’t wait to see what this upcoming season has in store for me regarding that. On a smaller scale, I love reading, running/working out, my dog, my car, and swimming in large bodies of water J

11.  BONUS QUESTION:  What famous person would you like to spank?  And which one would you like to have spank you?  Pick one male, one female please.

HEATHER: I would like to be spanked by Ryan Gosling because he portrays himself in a very quiet, mysterious, and dominant manner. But he really seems so gentle. Also, he’s Ryan Gosling 😛

I cant think of any famous person I would like to spank because I don’t really switch. But if by spank you mean hit really hard in the backside with a bag of rocks, I would have to pick any of the Jersey Shore characters.

Welcome Sarah.  We have worked together many times and you have always been an excellent bottom and have grown in to an outstanding top. Here are 10 questions I would like to ask you.

 

1.  I remember being the one to record the first on-camera spanking you gave (see above photo as Sarah spanks Chloe Elise as Sarah’s first ever scene as a top).  You have come a long way since then.  To what do you attribute your ability to spank so much harder and fluently then that first time?

SARAH: The main thing I would say is just constant practice and working out so that I am a physically stronger person in general. My Momma, Dana Specht, has been working with me on my demeanor while topping and topping technique, especially on how to give a good solid hand spanking without hurting my hand like I used to.  Also, I have picked up a lot from her as far as scolding is concerned; she is one of the best with that. My daddy, Paul “Tubaman” Rogers, is writing a book called Spanking 101:The Book and filming set of videos to go along with it. I have been doing a lot of the implement demos for the videos, so while showing on video how to use each implement properly, I am also practicing and mastering each one. My favorite two to use is a flogger and a cane.

 2.  You had been a schoolgirl a couple of times in the Exclusive Education series.  Can you share what it was like to be one of the tops and spanking 8 lovely schoolgirls? (Above photo shows Sarah as the Teacher’s assistant in Exclusive Education 7)

SARAH: It was very different being on the top side of things for a change in EE. Don’t get me wrong, I loved being a student, but being a top, I was more able to help the flow of the shooting move smoothly (we did the whole thing in one take) and I was able to have more dialogue. Honesty, I enjoy topping much more these days, especially spanking girls who are either younger than me or around my age. I feel that since I know what I am doing, I can have a lot of fun with it. Also, being an actress, it is wonderful to be able to try out different roles.

 3.  Anything you want to share about working with any of these girls in particular in EE7?  (Above photo shows Sarah’s good friends Katherine St. James having a pre spanking snack while Christy Cutie does a little primping – even though she is always super cute).

SARAH: I really enjoyed working with all the girls. I love big shoots as I always love to meet models I have not met. It is great for networking in the business. Also, it was great getting to work with Christy Cutie and Kat St. James as they are two of my BEST friends in the industry. So, getting to spank them both was a treat.

 4.  We shot the schoolroom scene of EE7 without cutting.  I asked if you could keep the story going because I know in the past, whenever we cut, it took a long time to get everyone going again.  So here is a multi-layered question – what is it that gives you that ability to improv so well and keep a scene going like that – for over an hour?  And did you find any challenges in doing it this time?

SARAH: Well, I guess it has always been easy for me to improv quickly as I have studied theater most of my life. I have taken many acting classes as well as been in many theater productions since I was a young child. Growing up I attended summer theater programs as well. When I shoot videos for my website, sarahgregoryspanking.com, all of my videos are improv, so many years of practice just make it easy. I really didn’t find any challenges with keeping the story going non-stop. It was fun actually to not have to cut.

 5.  Some of my audience loves counting – ie the girls count out some of their spanks – some have been telling me how much they hate it recently.  What is your take on counting?  You had the girls do a little bit of counting (the last 25) EE7.  What was your inspiration to have them count the last 25 spanks?

SARAH: As far as inspiration, I just came up with it as part of the improv to spice things up and make it more interesting. I like to give the fans all a little of what they want. In my opinion, as you said, some like counting, and some don’t, so to have them only count some of the spanks and not all of them gave all the fans something they love. You gotta be able to attract as many people as possible, so to include as many different “hot buttons” such as counting, or white full bottom panties…etc helps with that.

 6. I have shot you blonde recently, but for EE7 you went back to your natural darker color.  It looked great I might add.  I like your look both ways.  Care to share why you went blonde and why you went back?  (The above photo shows Sarah with her natural hair color and her blonde hair she had for a while)

SARAH:  OK….so the blonde. Last fall I auditioned for a musical production. On the audition form it asked, “Are you willing to change your hair for the production?” I thought writing YES would give me a better chance of getting the role, plus I always wanted a reason to go blonde since I was 16. It was a perfect excuse, plus it’s only hair and it grows back.  So I went blonde in November of 2011 and the show went up in January of 2012. After the show ended, I didn’t want to go back right away as I was quite enjoying the change. It helped me to book some work and add a new look to my portfolio.  Most of my vanilla and spanking friends liked it as well. The main reason I went back to my natural hair was the amount of damage the constant bleaching of the roots was doing. My hair was breaking off so I have lots of short pieces around the hairline. It was also very dry and getting hard to style, not to mention the bleach was irritating my skin. So, although I did LOVE the blonde, it was not a healthy choice to stick with. Now I have wigs for change.

 7.  Often when I meet a model, she will talk about how she wants to get her own site going and she will have various other biz. Plans.  Very few ever do it.  You talked about it and you did it on a massive scale.  You have your own site, your blog, a clips store and you seem to attend every spanking convention and are a successful traveling model.  How do you do it?  Care to share any secrets?

SARAH:  Well, modeling is my FULL time job. I don’t have a “vanilla” job to worry about, so I go all out. When I want something, I go for it. I never half-ass something. It is just who I am. I am also very money driven. I like to shop and like to travel. I also think about the future and want to make sure I will be able to retire one day having been a spanking model. I put money every month into a retirement account. I also always looked up to Clare Fonda as business role model. She taught me a lot. I always would say, I wanna be like Clare with 5 websites. Well, I have one and am in the process of working on 3 more, so it may happen. I am very organized and care more about my business than socializing, dating, or other vanilla activities. I am perfectly content sitting in on a Friday night editing clips for 8 hours. That is fun for me. I also love the travel and I feel that if I didn’t go to every spanking party that I could, I might not be as successful. 50% of running a business if marketing and networking, and putting myself out there face to face with my fellow producers, models, and fans is a must. I think that if someone wants something bad enough, such as their own business, they can make it happen, you just can’t give up.

8.  To those reading this interview, I want you to know that Sarah is a very smart and introspective young lady.  With that in mind, I want to ask you, Sarah, what your thoughts are about spankos telling their loved ones about who they are and what they like?  Do you think this is a good idea, or a dangerous idea?  Basically coming out as a spanko?

SARAH:  I have mixed feelings on this. I have told most of my vanilla friends what I do. I feel that if they judge me or stop wanting to be my friend because I am a spanko, then they don’t love me for who I am and I don’t want to be friends with someone who doesn’t love the whole me, because being a spanko is a huge part of who I am. As far as the family stuff goes, I think one needs to tread more carefully when considering sharing with family. I recently told my mother about my kink (not that I do it for a living) and she is not taking it well. She says she wishes she didn’t know. This knowledge is taking a huge toll on her emotional being. So, I guess maybe not telling a family member to protect them emotionally might be wise. However, I told my father everything and he seems to be dealing with it ok. So, I would say coming out as a spanko should be treated carefully when dealing with close family based on their own emotional stability and values.  When choosing to tell your significant lover, I would think this is a MUST. I won’t ever settle again for dating a vanilla and think that if one is settling, they are not being true to what their needs are.

 9.  I know you love musicals.  Can you share anything about your non-spanking life?

SARAH:  Well, I do have a very busy non-spanking life. When I am not traveling for shoots, doing sessions, attending spanking parties, or editing for my website, I fill my time to it’s capacity. There is never a dull moment it seems. I am always busy. I audition and participate in many community theater productions in the fall and winter. I also take voice lessons and sing in a choir. I love spending time with my dogs and of course shopping. I enjoy watching many of my favorite TV shows which include, Weeds, True Blood, GossipGirl, and Law and Order: SVU. I also spend a lot of time in the summer going to yard sales and flea markets looking for props for my videos.

10.  Now that you are on Spanking Sorority Girls, you are one of three models to appear on all five CF sites – the others being Snow Mercy and Veronica Ricci.  I’m thinking that you haven’t spanked or been spanked by either of these models yet – though Veronica will be shooting with you at the Shadow Lane convention.   I know Clare Fonda loves working with you – so your personality and spanking abilities are why you are on all five sites.  Any thoughts on working on all of the sites (do you have a CF favorite?), and what it is like working with Clare Fonda?  (The above photo was from the last spanking shoot of Clare Fonda – Sarah was the last person Clare spanked on camera).

SARAH:  I feel VERY honored to be one of the 3 models on all of the Clare Fonda websites. I would have to say that my favorite two Clare sites are Naughty Diaper Girls, and Girl Spanks Girl, with my new third favorite being the new Sorority Girls website. I always look forward to the shoots that I do for you guys. I have been spanked by Snow Mercy now as she got to get a few smacks in on my bottom in EE7. I have also spanked and been spanked by Veronica off camera. I hope to be able to spank her on camera as well. As far as working with Clare Fonda….I can sum it up in a few words, amazing, professional, and fun. Clare is such a joy to shoot with whether she is in the videos with me or off camera helping. She makes shooting fun and her creative juices are always flowing.  I love her dearly and consider her one of my best friends and I respect her greatly.

Thank you for taking the time to interview me and ask me some great questions that really got me to think. I love a good interview.

Hugs and Spanks, Sarah Gregory

 Alex Reynolds is relatively new to the Spanking Website scene, but she has been shooting with many sites recently and is on the rise.  I have shot her for the Girl Spanks Girl site and we have been making plans for another shoot in the fall.  Alex was gracious enough to share some of her deepest thoughts about spanking and throughout the interview you can find out where you will find her scenes if you would like to see more of Alex.

CAMERAMAN:  Hello Alex, thank you for taking the time to answer questions for The Spanking View.

ALEX:  Hi! Thanks for having me!

CAMERAMAN: 1.  What was the first time you remember being spanked and can you tell us a little about that experience?

ALEX:  I sometimes played spanking games with my friends when I was a kid, but the first time that I got a “real” spanking was shortly after my eighteenth birthday. I had always thought about spanking all my life, but didn’t know how one could go about getting spanked until I discovered a leather strap that could have no use besides spanking hidden in the drawer of a male friend’s desk when I was snooping. I confided to him that I had been going through his stuff and seen this, and that I had always had spanking fantasies. Eventually, he agreed to give me a spanking. It was an extremely nerve-racking experience! I had always imagined what it would be like, but I didn’t know how it would really feel, how much it would hurt, how long it would last or anything like that. The actual spanking was amazing, though. He spoke to me in a very stern but kind voice about what he was going to do, then lifted my skirt, pulled down my panties and put me over his lap. He spanked me hard with his hand and I cried– largely because I was so overwhelmed with excitement, anxiety, relief and happiness that it was actually happening! And because it hurt! I remember spending a very long time looking at my butt in the mirror afterwards and asking myself if this was real or not. There a more detailed version of this story on My Blog.

CAMERAMAN:  2.  Were you spanked very often growing up and if so by relatives or friends or both?

ALEX:  I wasn’t really spanked when I was growing up. When I first went to school, I sometimes played games with my friends that involved spanking, but my friends never did it hard enough for my liking! Eventually, I became too shy and embarrassed to participate in these games. No adults ever spanked me for disciplinary reasons. I didn’t get a single swat. It was sometimes threatened, and I felt very afraid that people would see my face light up with excitement at the threat, but no one ever followed through

CAMERAMAN:  3.  What would you say your interest is in spanking?  And to what extent?

ALEX:  I’m pretty much interested in everything to do with spanking! I think about it ALL THE TIME. When I’m with spanko friends, it’s always coming up in conversation. I’m in a spanking based relationship with my boyfriend, too. I like the vulnerability of having my bottom bared and being put over someone’s lap to be spanked. I like the inevitability of it, too. When it’s announced that I’m going to be spanked, whether for punitive reasons or just for fun, there’s nothing that can be done about it. The power is entirely away from me, and I love that feeling (when I’m with someone I trust, of course!) I also like being spanked for fun: one of my best friends, Heather Michaels and I have made a bunch of silly videos where we spank each other with strange objects that we’ve found and laugh the whole way through. I can’t really explain WHY spanking is so special to me, but it really is my favorite thing in the entire world, and I’m constantly thankful for the opportunities that I get to use spanking as my profession, as part of my relationship, and as a way to connect with friends!

CAMERAMAN:  4.  Heather Michaels is indeed very pretty and spankable.  Hopefully I can shoot her for one of our sites some day!  So you enjoyed spanking Heather —   do you prefer to spank or get spanked or both?

ALEX:  I definitely prefer to be spanked. I like to spank other girls. It sort of feels more like playacting to me than anything, though, even if I’m giving a thorough spanking. It’s something that I am not bad at, but it isn’t deeply seated within me the way that being spanked is. At the end of the day, there really isn’t anything I like more than getting a spanking!

CAMERAMAN:  5.  What was the hardest spanking you received in real life and on film?

ALEX:  The hardest spanking that I received in real life is kind of a hard thing for me to pinpoint, because my emotions at the time are very influential to how hard I perceive things to be. The spanking that stands out as the hardest is a disciplinary spanking that my boyfriend gave me for being irresponsible and disobeying him. He spanked me while I was laying over pillows with a paddle made out of tire-tread. It wasn’t long at all, but it seemed like it hurt more than anything I’d ever felt! A lot of this was the result of my own disappointment in myself and my desire to submit to the spanking and really let it get to me. Another spanking which is memorable, and was certainly longer and more physically intense, was one of the first canings that I received. This was a spanking which I got simply because I’d asked to be spanked hard, as that was what I really wanted at that particular moment. I’d previously been afraid of canes, but I’d had a few shorter canings and had grown more comfortable. My boyfriend caned me quite hard for a long time with a fairly short cane while I was over his lap. It hurt A LOT but I felt very safe and pleased and comfortable the entire time. I was marked and bruised afterwards, and I liked that a lot, too.

The hardest spanking I’ve received on film was during the only real discipline video that I’ve ever done. It’s from a shoot I did with Lily Starr Spanking. Robert Wolf spanked me for being very irresponsible and disorganized during my first trip as a traveling model. He used his hand, a wooden paddle, two straps and then the cane. I cried very hard! I generally don’t like the idea of doing real discipline videos because it seems too personal, but I was very repentant about this and have a wonderful friendship with Robert, so it was very comfortable for me on an emotional level. It also helped me to let go of my guilt and get restarted as a responsible girl, and I’m pleased to say that I’ve had no repeats of that behavior! 😀

CAMERAMAN:  6.  Tell us about how you became a spanking model.

ALEX:  I actually started out as a generic nude model. It was originally just something that I did for some cash when I was a college student. I found some gigs taking naked photos off of craigslist and I would bring a male friend along to make sure that I was safe. Eventually, I met some real art photographers and got into doing some awesome stuff. When I moved to Los Angeles, I started doing lots of nude shoots. It was my full time job. I sometimes did shoots with fetish themes– tied wrists, blindfolds, something shoved in my mouth, et cetera, but I felt too shy to do any actual fetish shoots. Around the same time as I started blogging, I got to the point where I felt confident about myself as a spanking enthusiast to want to be in spanking videos. I then started contacting various video producers in the LA area and did my first shoot! Getting more and more shoots has been easier since then, although I’m always still looking for modeling work (both spanking and otherwise!). I still think of myself as just getting started as a spanking model, but I do have big plans, and I love doing spanking videos so much!

CAMERAMAN:  7.  I don’t know if you realize this or not, but your first shoot with Clare Fonda was the last time she was spanked by a female.  Can you tell us about your experiences working with Clare and what was it like to spank her and get spanked by her?

ALEX:  I knew that my shoot with Clare was one of the last spanking shoots that she did. I didn’t know that I was the last female to spank her! That’s actually very exciting to hear: I guess that can be one of my “claims to fame.” When Clare and I had discussed the shoot during the planning phases, we hadn’t talked about me spanking her. It was something that we came up with near the end of the day. I was pretty nervous about it, because I’d never done a video where I topped and I wasn’t giggling the entire time! It was a scene that had quite a bit of talking in it, as well, but I managed to get into the right headspace to make myself sound Toppy. Once I got over feeling nervous about it, spanking Clare was a lot of fun. She was very responsive, and she has such a cute bottom, I just let myself get into it and stopped worrying about doing it perfectly. I think it turned out really well!

 

The whole experience of working with Clare was really great. She’s such a fun person. The scenes that we were doing were really well suited to my personality as a spankee: I really do think of myself as a good girl who is sometimes just very naughty and in need of correction, so getting into that character wasn’t any work at all. I enjoyed being spanked by Clare– she gave me hard but not brutal spankings, and her scolding was awesome to hear in person. I get the impression that a lot of girls don’t like doing so many scenes in one day (we shot all the scenes pretty much back-to-back) but for me, it was pretty much a dream come true! I’d watched a bunch of Clare’s videos ever since I first got on the internet, so spending the whole day getting spanked by her was an amazing experience. My favorite scene that we did together is the one where I get caught with cigarettes and Clare sends me to change into my pajamas for a spanking right in front of the doorway. I like being spanked in pajamas a lot because they feel so relaxed and cozy. One of my favorite pictures of me being spanked comes from that set:

ALEX:  My favorite thing about this photo (above) is the fact that my ears are all red, because I’m blushing from the embarrassing scolding that she’s giving me!

I was sad when you and Clare explained to me that she was retiring from the spanking scene, but I was very happy to have had a chance to have such a great shoot with her before she left. You were both so friendly and easy to work with, and I loved the fact that Clare’s house is full of cats and dogs. Snuggling a cat in between spankings is pretty much the best! 

CAMERAMAN:  8.  You have told me that you will be attending the Shadow Lane Spanking Convention Labor Day weekend.  Have you attended any others and if so, what was that experience like and what will you be looking forward to at Shadow Lane?

ALEX:  Yes! I’m really excited about it! I recently went to my first big spanking event: the Texas All State Spanking Party. It was very exciting because I got to see some of my long-time friends like Christy Cutie and Ten Amorette, plus I got to meet people who I’d only talked to over the internet before. I met lots of other people for the very first time and made some good friends. Did I mention that I got spanked a lot? It was very fun! I also did a bunch of video shoots, which I always love. Being in a big group of spankos and coming up with stories and ideas for videos was way easier than sitting at home and making them up all alone. I didn’t spend a lot of time at the demos or organized events because I was so busy during the party, but I hear that they were really great, too.

I’m looking forward to meeting even more people at Shadowlane, since it’s a bigger party and several friends who I haven’t seen in a long time will be there. I’ve also just begun to take private paid spanking sessions in addition to shooting videos, so I’m currently booking both shoots and sessions for Shadowlane. I can be reached about this at alexinspankingland@gmail.com. I’m very excited about this, because it gives me even more chances to connect with people into spanking that I might have otherwise missed! I’m also going to be going to Chicago Crimson Moon in July, and I’m doing both videos and sessions there. I think I’m addicted to spanking parties now that I’ve gotten a taste of them. I just can’t wait until the next one.

CAMERAMAN:  9.  What are your favorite and least favorite implements.

ALEX:  I like being spanked with a bare hand the best, but I also like hairbrushes and wooden spoons because they can be used OTK and have a nice, domestic feel about them. I also love leather paddles! Those just feel nice and make me all floaty and relaxed! It’s like a hand spanking only amplified. My least favorite implement would be a lexan paddle. The word “lexan” just makes me freeze where I’m standing! It’s the worst possible combination of sting and thud and it drives me crazy.

CAMERAMAN:  10.  Outside of spanking, what are your interests.

ALEX:  I’m basically a huge geek. I’m into a lot of sci-fi and comic books, things like that. I love reading and writing: besides being a spanking blogger, I’m also a fairly well published vanilla writer. I double majored in writing and film history when I was in college, and I love watching movies and talking about them. I’m very into cooking and being domestic, although I can’t say that I’m perfect at it yet. I do love spending time in the kitchen and trying out a new recipe, though. I’m also into playing video games, and I’m a huge indie music fan. My favorite band is The Mountain Goats, and I try to plan the shoots that I have to travel to around their tour schedule. Finally, I’m way too obsessed with cute things. I especially love it when I get to spend time with my friends’ pets, since I don’t have any living with me at the moment.

CAMERAMAN:  11.  Bonus question  – if you could spank or be spanked by any famous person who would it be and why.

ALEX:  In terms of real-life, living famous people, I’d want to be spanked by Nathan Fillion, the actor who played Malcolm Reynolds on the TV show Firefly. I’m kind of obsessed with him. I got the last name of my stage name from the character. I just love the sense of humor that I see from him in everything that he does and in interviews, and I’ve had Firefly related spanking fantasies ever since I first watched the show. Eek! I’m blushing just thinking about it.

CAMERAMAN:  Some might recognize Nathan Fillion for his current hit show CASTLE.  And who wouldn’t want to spank his co-star on that show?!  Thanks for sharing, Alex!